About

I’m Soy, licensed marriage and family therapist. Thanks for stopping by to learn more about me.

I started volunteering with a rape crisis center in 2015 and became a California state-certified sexual assault counselor where I counseled and advocated for people impacted by sexual violence. This included being at medical exams, police interviews, and juvenile hall. I proceeded to volunteer, then intern as a therapist, and eventually work for them until 2021.

It was through these experiences that I learned that our systems are at the root of fear, violence, disconnect, disavowal, and suffering. We all have a desire for connection with others and ourselves, to belong and to be accepted, to be loved, but we have been incentivized to disconnect, to other, to deny.

In our work together, I will walk alongside you into the depths so that we can find in you again connection, acceptance, love, (all perhaps in a way that had existed in you in the first place) by challenging the messages we’ve internalized and through the relationship we build with each other.

Radical simply means grasping things at the roots.
— Angela Davis

Services

Individual Psychotherapy

Specialties &
people I work with

Relational violence (sexual, domestic, family violence), grief, formerly incarcerated youth, gifted adults, others in the helping professions, and navigating the challenges of those that identify as curious and misunderstood.

Fees
$220 per 50-minute session

Couples
Psychotherapy

Specialties &
people I work with

Neurodiverse couples, couples with histories of sexual trauma.

Fees
$250 per 75-minute session
Note: If you are using Kaiser or Health Plan of San Mateo for couples sessions, sessions are 50-minutes long

Consultation

I’m happy to consult on a variety of topics (free of charge), however, specific topics such as supporting clients affected by sexual violence and couples with histories of sexual trauma are charged (see fees below).

Fees
$220 per hour
Discounts for BIPOC, available to slide to $100 per hour (please, ask me about it!)

FAQ

Contact

If you are having a psychiatric emergency, please, go to your nearest emergency room or use your phone to dial 9-1-1.

If you have additional questions and/or would like to schedule a 15-20 minute consultation call (free of charge), fill out the form below.

A few of the places and loves I draw inspiration from…